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Congolese refugee has ‘purpose in life’ after gaining job in childcare

Congolese refugee has ‘purpose in life’ after gaining job in childcare

Hero for Congolese refugee has ‘purpose in life’ after gaining job in childcare
Rebecca Mbele

Rebecca Mbele fled war-torn Congo to start a new life in the UK and secured her lifelong dream of working with children

Growing up in the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), Rebecca Mbele would often care for her younger siblings and children of relatives and family friends at the age of ten.

Despite a rich wealth of minerals and natural resources, DRC is one of the poorest countries in the world following years of civil and international war from 1996-97 and 1998-2003. The conflicts and their aftermath have caused millions of fatalities amid continued unrest.

Rebecca lived with her parents, older sister and three younger brothers in the capital Kinshasa, the largest city in Africa with a population of 15 million. She is proud of her Congolese roots and recalls a happy childhood where she enjoyed looking after her younger siblings and other children when they came to visit.

“The men would watch TV and discuss the news and politics and the women would be in the kitchen, and I would sit in a corner and play with the children. I felt honoured that their parents trusted me to look after their little ones,” said Rebecca, 44, who now lives in Tottenham.

According to UNICEF, one million children in the DRC aged five to 17 are not in school because of the cost – despite the country’s government decreeing primary education should be free – and the vast majority of the country’s children have no pre-school education.

Rebecca said: “There is an African proverb that says it takes a village to raise a child.”

“There aren’t many places your parents can leave you when they go to work, so you would stay with a relative, neighbour or family friend in the community. For your children to go to a nursery, you had to be earning a lot of money. It was not an option for us.”

Rebecca left school in 1995 aged 18 after passing the Examen d’Etat, the Congolese equivalent of the French baccalauréat, and began studying economics at Université William Booth in Kinshasa.

Civil war broke out in DRC the following year with the country in political turmoil and economic decline, which spilled over into Uganda and Sudan. The conflict escalated when Rwanda invaded DRC and was later joined by more states including Uganda, Burundi, Angola and Eritrea.

Despite only lasting seven months, the war caused widespread destruction with thousands of people killed or displaced. Rebecca’s family were forced to move further out of Kinshasa and she had no choice but to give up her studies.

Rebecca said: “The lifestyle we had was gone. I could feel it in the house. The country was getting worse and worse and there were fewer jobs. If you didn’t know people, you didn’t get work. I was crying on my bed every single night thinking ‘what is this life?’”

During her studies Rebecca had met and got engaged to another student. He was a political activist wanted by the Congolese government who fled the country in 1996.

“For a whole year there was no communication. No one heard from him or knew where he was. I was sad, confused and deeply worried. I thought it was finished and he was gone,” Rebecca said.

His aunt in the UK later wrote to tell his family he had arrived as a refugee and was safe.

The first war came to an end when President Mobutu was overthrown but political tensions and hostility continued under rebel leader Laurent-Desiré Kabilia, leading to the second conflict that would last five years. Fearing for her own safety, Rebecca flew to the UK to be with her fiancé.

They set up home in Camden and arranged a traditional Congolese wedding and would go on to have four children. Attending baby clubs and nurseries with her own children further sparked her interest in an education career.

Rebecca said: “I’m so glad they went. It helped them to communicate with other children, how to play and share toys. At that age, it is so important for their development. I would see how the staff set things up and would get down to the children’s level to speak to them. It was amazing to see, and I knew that this was what I wanted to do.”

Rebecca enrolled on an Early Years Practitioner Level 2 Diploma at the College of Haringey, Enfield and North East London (CONEL) and went on to study Supporting Teaching and Learning Level 3 Certificate. She received an Excellence Award from CONEL in 2018.

Rebecca is now working for N Family Club, an early years education provider with nurseries across London and the South East, having started her career at Pembury House Nursery School and Children’s Centre in Tottenham where she undertook a placement while at college.

Rebecca said: “CONEL gave me the chance to truly believe in myself and prepare for my dream career. I was blessed to have had the most amazing, kind and caring teachers. I am so proud and amazed when I look at what I have achieved. I now know where I am and where I am going. I am happy and have a purpose in my life, and nothing can stop me.”

Click here for information on the childcare and early years courses at CONEL